Saturday, June 28, 2008

Poligamy.

Say a word 'polygamy' to any sane European woman and you might see her become a violent monster, who might throw a rock at you and break your jaw with a swing of a fist, or at the very least scratch your eyes out. Well not really. But they will say that polygamy is wrong. Now let's take a deep breath and ask ourselves why? Why not?
Polygamy has been natural to humans since the beginning of ages and is natural for most mammals as well. It is the way things work, because man is capable of producing a large amount of semen every day, while a woman can bear only one ( 2 or 3 in rare cases ) child for 9 months. No. I am not trying to justify a man sleeping with every woman he can get. That is not right. What I am trying to look at are the Islamic countries, where a man is allowed to have up to four wives. He has to be able to support them all and treat all of them in the same way. And four women living together become the best of friends. They grow their children together, cook, clean, go shopping. But what about love, family, trust, commitment? Seriously? Let's look at any European or American family, with the income above average. How many husbands have never had an affair? Not too many. Once a man starts making ehough money to support his family, he is very likely to find someone else to take out to dinner. Not because he is unhappy at home with his wife, just because it is a man thing. He is proving to himself that he is a male. And getting females is what males do. I am not trying to be a cool one-of-the-guys kind of girl. After all it all doesn't apply to me much anyways. I am going to get my degree, teach in college, make my money and won't give a damn of how much my husband, if I will ever have one, will make. But if I had a choice of being a stay-at-home mom, with husband who makes enough money and cheats on me, or being one of four wives of some sheikh in Arabic Emirates, I would choose the latter.

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