Thursday, July 3, 2008
Discuss?...
I like intelligent conversation. What I like to call discussion. What is supposed to be an exchange of opinions. I have a bunch of friends, who I like having those discussions with. It is fun. We talk, discuss and then everyone leaves feeling a little smarter.
And it is great.
But today, after talking to my father, I realised that I only have those kind of discussions with people who share the same opinion as me.
And it goes like:
-You know the Sun is yellow.
-Yes, I agree, even though I think it is a bit white, but still more yellow.
-Let me add that it is warm also. But yes of course it is yellow.
-And it gives light and energy but it is also yellow.
-Oh how interesting it is talking to you.
-And you make a great conversation partner.
Ew. Kind of sick isn't it?
I think I might be a coward, but it happens very rarely, that I would have that kind of discussion with someone who thinks the sun is red. It would quickly become an argument and then maybe even a fight, depending on how strongly that person believes the sun is red. I hate fights.
I am liberal, however I don't bring up that topic, when I am hanging out with a bunch of conservatives.
I am not religious, but I would not argue the Big Bang theory, with a Catholic.
No, that is not because I can't argue that. I just don't want to. Because I am afraid to hurt their feelings, to get in a fight, to spoil that nice friendly relationshop we have.
Just felt like writing it out. Not that anyone will ever read that.
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