love or hate ?

Love/hate In Russia we have a saying : There is one step from love to hate. Never thought it was so true. The same qualities in the same person may trigger completely different feelings, depending on whether we like them or dislike them. Like: 

• outgoing (loud),
• funny (obnoxious), 
• sexy (obsessed with sex), 
• laid-back (lazy), 
• sarcastic (mean). 

 Each one of us has two sides to their personality. There are no totally good people or totally bad people. It is just what you see. But seriously, would you rather meet a guy who is outgoing, funny, sexy, laid-back and sarcastic, or someone who is loud, obnoxious, obsessed with sex, lazy and mean? As funny as it is, that might be the same person. :\